Clarity is Your New Best Friend
The decision to end a relationship is one of the most important and difficult choices you will ever make.
Or perhaps you are receiving the decision that your partner has made. It can be a painful, daunting, and overwhelming transition for everyone involved.
You are the Boss of This Process:
Don’t let a process choose you.
You deserve to lead this process. To protect your integrity, your family, and your assets, you are most empowered when you see the landscape clearly before taking steps that are difficult to reverse. My Divorce Profile consists of 40 questions that calculate the two basic metrics that will define your process; the quality of your relationship and the complexity of your separation tasks.
By understanding your "engine" and "cargo," you gain the power to make clear decisions about who you need, what you need them to do, and how to work efficiently.
How ‘My Divorce Profile’ works
Step 1: Understanding where you are.
Take 20–30 minutes to answer 40 questions to gain instant insight into your situation.
- Identify Hurdles: See clearly what you will likely struggle with and what will probably be easy.
- Demonstrated Accuracy: Every question is based in professional understandings and established practice. Although this is not a psychometrically tested instrument, each question has been evaluated by experts and also by lay people who have been through a separation themselves, and then compared to real-world outcomes. My Divorce Profile has been found to be consistently accurate.
- Immediate Results: Once you have answered all 40 questions, you will receive your scores automatically, and have a clear sense of the process you are likely facing. Instant insight.
- Cost: The initial survey is free. This is your first step toward clarity.
Step 2: The Personalized Package
For an investment of $50, you can choose to unlock a personalized information package.
- Know Your Options: Learn if DIY or consensual options are appropriate, or if you need the structure of strong legal support. Understand all your potential options.
- Deep Resources: Access a comprehensive resource list, including podcasts, links, and tried and true publications, to help in many areas of your transition, from communication to parenting plans, financial decisions and adult transitions.
- Empowered Choices: Become an informed consumer of divorce services so you can invest in the resources that match what you need. You may be able to do some of it yourself.
- Remember: this is YOUR life and you are in charge.
Why This Matters
Identifying the strengths and vulnerabilities in your relationship and the complexity of your separation tsks is the best way to protect your future.
To protect that future, step back from the emotional noise for just a moment and learn about the actual mechanics of your unique separation.
For families with children, the needs of the children must be a central priority because they are the most vulnerable. Right now you are writing the story of their parents’ divorce. Although it may not feel this way today, you can create an experience that makes them, and you, proud. An experience where the family was able to continue in a predictable, responsive and loving way.
About Susan
Susan Gamache supports individuals navigating relationship uncertainty, separation, and divorce with compassion, insight, and practical guidance.
Her work helps people move from confusion and emotional overload toward clarity, confidence, and informed decision-making.
This self-evaluation was created to offer a gentle first step for people who need a private space to reflect before deciding what comes next.
Disclaimer
This survey is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. Divorce laws vary by location; the information provided may not apply to the specific laws in your area. We do not guarantee the accuracy of this information and are not liable for any actions taken based on these results. Consult a licensed professional.
Your Privacy is Paramount
Your information is completely private and will not be shared or used for any purpose other than providing your My Divorce Profile results and your personalized guide.