High Net Worth Divorce

In general we think of having good financial resources as a strength for a family. Unfortunately, in the area of separation and divorce, these assets can be a liability for the family, especially the children.

High net worth families are vulnerable to excessive and unnecessary litigation because there are funds to pay for it. Where there are limited funds, there are very real limits on how much litigation there can be. Litigation must stop when the money runs out.

The research on children’s wellbeing is clear that no matter what type of family children live within, prolonged exposure to their parents’ marital conflict hurts children. The more conflict there is, the more the children are at risk.

There is no doubt that in some situations litigation is the appropriate process. However, in the vast majority of situations, parents (even when there is considerable conflict) can work together, with appropriate information and support, to resolve the problems of the separation and keep their children and family safe from the very real risks of highly funded litigation.

The leading trends in Family Law suggest that litigation is becoming the ALTERNATE DISPUTE RESOLUTION approach and methods that keep families out of court and at the settlement table are now the first and most common choice.

If you are a high net worth family, I can help you to identify what you truly need in order to move through this transition as safely as possible.

Therapeutic Services

Separation and Divorce

Therapeutic Approaches

Over the years my therapeutic style has been influenced by many approaches. Here are some of the areas that have been most important:

  • Individual Life Span Development
  • Child Development
  • Family Development
  • Stepfamily Development
  • Family Systems
  • Family Therapies
  • Attachment theory
  • Play Therapy
  • Parent Education
  • Couple Communication
  • Domestic Violence Intervention
  • Conflict Resolution Approaches
  • Psychopathology
  • Cognitive-Behavioral Approaches
  • Solution-Oriented Therapies
  • Positive Psychology
  • Appreciative Inquiry
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Neurophysiology
  • Interpersonal Neurobiology
  • Trauma
  • Mind-Body Connections
  • EFT – Emotional Freedom Technique
  • Somatic techniques
  • Spiritual Counselling
  • Life Review
  • Resilience

Separation and Divorce Issues Addressed

I work with a variety of people and problems including:

  • emotional shock at receiving unexpected news
  • feeling lost and confused about which professional services are appropriate
  • planning the transition to two households
  • how to talk with your children about the separation/divorce
  • responding to the emotional needs of the children
  • working out parenting time
  • creating parenting plans
  • supporting the best possible co-parenting relationship
  • shifting repetitive communication dynamics
  • self-calming and self care through the process
  • the introduction of new partners